Love and Marriage Do Go Together Like a Horse and Carriage by Dr. Randy Carney
(Originally published in goarticles.com)
An old, old song says that love and marriage go together like a horse and carriage. In some countries, marriages are arranged ahead of time. This seems strange to those of us in the United States, but many arranged marriages do end up being happy marriages. What happens, even in those cases, is that the couple grows to love each other.
How do love and marriage go together like a horse and carriage? For a marriage to be at its best, love must certainly be a major component. Perhaps, though, it will be well to define the word, love. Love often seems to be related to some type of romantic attraction that perhaps is very explosive. Sometimes emotions and chemistry do produce those types of attractions, but it would be better to understand love as it relates to a longer look at a relationship. Love is far more than just an exciting time. Excitement cannot be generated forever. Indeed if the quality that generates excitement is the same day in and day out, it will become common-place and no longer generate excitement.
Love as related to marriage, while having romantic aspects, will better be related to the fact of caring for your husband or wife.
The husband who cares about his wife will strive to bring some romance into the marriage because he understands that is a great need of his wife.
The wife who cares about her husband will make efforts to help him feel respected and admired because that is one of his greatest needs.
Together, they will experience, love, respect, and romance. When that happens, love and marriage do go together like a horse and carriage.
(Copyright 2008 by Randy Carney)
About the Author
Dr. Randy Carney has worked with married couples for years. He has learned that love and respect brings success in any marriage. Did you find this article helpful? You can learn a lot more about how further secrets to marital bliss can help you here: Secrets of Marital Bliss.
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Don't just have a tolerable marriage, have a great marriage!
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